Sexual abuse at home during lockdown: An ignored reality

 
"I don't want to do it again. I am tired of working at home... Have some shame, back off will you"
 
He laughed, made some funny faces, and forced himself on me saying that I WILL take away your "thakaan" and he just rolled over me...
 
Why did he do this? He was never this person, questions like this kept Shweta (name changed) confused...
 
But this kept happening to her... And this made her feel so humiliated, angry, and pained!
 
Why can't you just ever be in the mood? You are such a prude and here I am stuck with you... No, where to go out
 
Words by Amrita's husband made her feel not only hurt but scared, what did he mean by he can't go out... Was he cheating on her earlier?
 
Sujata's husband didn't have any emotional connection with her. He would be busy with his family, home, work but in the night, he would come and just use like me a tissue paper, every day and now sometimes more than once a day... Nothing could feel worse in this lockdown than sexual abuse... What AM I? I think to myself
 
So many women have started counseling at ePsyclinic (By IWill) because of dealing with sexual abuse at homes by ironically men who they wanted to trust the most!

Sexual abuse in marriage attacks a woman's heart like nothing else
 
1 It takes away her self-esteem
 
2. It makes her feel like an object
 
3. It makes her feel she is not respected by her own spouse
 
4. It makes her feel emotionally abused. Sex follows love... Not vice versa!
 
5. It can and in many cases does cause depression, anxiety, and even feelings of self-harm!

If as a woman this is what you are going through or some sexual abuse in the home whether a denial of sex too as that is a form of abuse too,
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